Let go and Heal

Hi Darling,

As it’s getting closer to 2026 my eyes are opening up and my discernment is growing. The friendships that I’ve invested so much time into I have realized that I am being called away from. Honestly it hurts a lot but I didn’t see what God saw. The secret conversations about me when I’m not around and things that I would never expect. Yet God has been so gracious on bringing the things done in the dark to the light.

So truly I tell you, if you are feeling like your friends have been a bit weird towards you lately, ask God to reveal things to you. And He will, yes it will hurt but darling you will be okay. He will remove you from those who haven’t been in your best interest. It’s also okay to grieve this, take your time and remember the good memories and thank God for them. Then Let him heal you. If not you will bleed out on others that He is calling you to be friends with. I have been writing my newest book and it’s mostly about that; hurt people hurting people. Yet that isn’t biblical we aren’t called to tear others down but to lift them up in love.

In order to lift people up, we can’t lift with weak arms. Like okay don’t laugh I was at the park with my best friend and my godson (who is one) started to do pull-ups on a bar and I’m like okay I can do that. Bruh I literally just hung in the air. I don’t work on my arms so I have weak arms. The only weight my arms carry is children at work. If I had to lift up someone my own age I wouldn’t be able to. You can’t lift in weakness so why would you be able to pour into someone if you are hurting?

Heal and take your time. Forgive them. Cut off all soul ties and let them go. When shame comes in or the enemy planting lies, rebuke them. Jesus has already given you the authority. You don’t have to walk in anything that you don’t want to.

I promise when you walk in obedience of letting them go you will be blessed immensely and this is my prayer for you. I love you and Jesus loves you more!

With Love,

Neci 🤍